For the guys out there.  A few points of etiquette you might consider when chatting or talking.  First I know guys are very visual in how they view the world.  It is ok to ask for a pic or ask what we are wearing once in awhile.  It grows very old very quick when asked every time you start talking to us.  I know I personally do not have the desire to give a play by play of my wardrobe every time I talk to you.  Or feel the price of admission to engage in conversation is a pic.  Recognize sometimes it’s not about just you and what you want. Second the conversation does not always have to be about sex.  I know I am more willing to be sexual when I don’t feel used and it’s just about getting you off.  Be friends and have a G rated conversation sometimes.  Just because you want to show me naughty pics does not mean I owe you one.  Sending me one without warning is a fast way to get blocked.  I may have others around.  Big difference between guys and girls chatting is guys like to do it in isolation. They go somewhere by themselves for privacy.  Us girls rarely have any privacy so we just are more subtle.  Easy to hide text but a pic of your cock.  Yeah not a good surprise unless we are ready for it.  Learn to be OK with a no response.   We all have our level of openness and no matter how charismatic you are I have put more than my share of guys on ignore that believe they can Jedi persuade me.  I have my own set of rules I play by.  Honestly I enjoy making friends and I’m very open.  Rarely am I offended and I don’t have a problem saying no.  The few things that i actually am totally turned off by is asking me my grooming habits, trying to manipulate me, or wanting to cross over into my real life.  I just think asking a girl if they are shaved is crass.  I refuse to be manipulated and I will not give you my Facebook…don’t ask.  Chatting takes a bit of respect and courtesy just like real life relationships.

4 thoughts on “Chatting

  1. I like how you make all these rules for guys to follow, but it’s okay for you to be so open and explicit about sex on you blog. What do you expect from guys when you post such things on your blog?

    • I think men and women are very different and it’s important to understand what turns a person on and what doesn’t. Generally speaking men are more demanding in a chatting environment. By sharing my thoughts my hope is it will be a better experience for others. It’s like in all things we need to communicate our likes and dislikes. What I enjoy is fun chat whether is sexual or not. I do hope a few of my followers get turned on occassionally. I Hope this answers your question.

  2. I will respect your rules, and I hope if feel I were to ever cros that line, you will tell me. I definitely like to read the female views in any form about sex (and other matters—even politics and religion! . I like to learn from them, and hope with what I write can even learn from me—but that doesn’t make me sit here with my tongue drooling out over them. You go girl.

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