I think there is 3 criteria for evaluating a cock. First length, second thickness, and finally hardness. I enjoy thickness, that’s easy. Length isn’t as big a factor as long as it’s not too short. But hardness….mmmm. A really hard cock is like the absolute best thing ever. Especially one hard and bouncy and drooling cum. When a guy is so turned on he cums and doesn’t go soft you are like at the peak of sexual pleasure because you get more lol. He is totally lost in lust. Raw passion. Usually the second round is even better. I think that is one of the benefits of fooling around is guys are super hard with someone new or someone they are not with often. When a guy is with someone married it’s like throwing gasoline on the fire with their level of excitement. I know the guys I have enjoyed were like so into the moment. Raging hard to. The extra fun makes hubby hard as possible as well. Feels better for him and me. I honestly am not entirely convinced monogamy is the way it’s supposed to be. I believe marriage is ordained of God. But when you can play with others in a good relationship it just makes everything amazing. I know people that cheat and there are a lot of reasons they do. Totally not judging because everyone has different situations going on. I will say doing this with the person you love is way way more exciting. Oh and lots of really hard cocks.