SEX! We all love it. I don’t believe I have ever met or chatted with a single person that didn’t like sex. I asked some friends this morning if sex for them was a Habit or an Event. What did they want it to be? Most responded an event. I get that. I mean an event is a big deal. It’s not just the normal. You dress up, your excited, it’s like Christmas! There is anticipation that you don’t normally experience. It’s not just sex it’s sex with some intensity. Your like going to the event, your going to impress at the event, it’s going to be memorable because it’s the event.
For me though sex is a habit. I have found that regular habit sex happens because we enjoy it. I feel closer to Keith, I’m less stressed, I laugh more, I definitely have a smile. We flirt more in text messages or around the house. Romance is alive and kicking due to a habit of sex. I have found him to be more considerate and I certainly am more attentive. The real key though is even though a habit of sex may not last as long, be in the dark, always early on Saturday mornings or whatever that makes it less exciting, it is never bad. Also due to the habit of normal, everyday, less than mind blowing sex comes the spice it up attitude. So if your getting sex once a month work towards once a week. If your at once a week try for twice. If it’s twice why not thrice? Frequency spawns event sex. Trust me on this. So never again complain about habit sex. ❤️