Ok I am going to vent just a little today so please forgive. I do not understand why so many women don’t get that men are so sexual. Let’s be real they were wired that way. God did it on purpose. Men actually think about sex all or at least most of the time. Girls if you are not going to give it up at least once a week your guy is going to look elsewhere. He will look at porn or go to chat rooms or go hunting for someone to play with. I hate to give these guys an excuse but seriously take care of your man and a very good chance he won’t cheat on you. Not saying it couldn’t happen but I have chatted with enough guys to know that many are not being taken care of sexually. It isn’t a game and you are risking your relationship by not being intimate with him. He is risking it cheating for sure but don’t think you have the moral high ground by creating a scarcity of the one thing he wants more than anything else. A guy wants sex almost as much as the air he breaths. Don’t believe me ask him. He married you because he wanted to fuck you. He stays In the relationship because he loves you and wants to fuck you. He puts up with your crap because he believes he will get to fuck you. Take that away and eventually he will replace you with another means to get off and if you make it bad enough on him eventually he will leave you. Sex is the cement that holds everything together. If your not enjoying it girls rediscover your passion. It’s true
I have had a mental block the last two weeks with two major events happening. Today I just woke up with a tension headache and was like wow too much stress. I am not a fan of headaches or stress. So slept some today, worked as little as possible, and looking forward to sleeping away the tension tonight. I had a chat with a guy today that had got blocked and then friended me again under another screen name on yahoo. I blocked him because he was just being too pushy. I liked him but he just had pushed too hard too often and finally I was done. We had a good talk today and I understand he felt the need to deceive me to continue to be a chat friend. I am not sure when Keith and I will play again but anytime someone lies it creates a trust issue as a possible playmate. For me I never move quickly into a sexual relationship with anyone because the truth about people always reveals itself. Not that trust can’t be earned but even in a normal friendship lying doesn’t work. If I’m going to fool around with someone my reputation, church membership, family, children, etc is at stake and I absolutely will not take a chance. Unless I trust you, I like you and your pretty dang hot your probably not my type . I’m already in a loving relationship I don’t need a replacement. I can assure you that no matter how wonderful you are or how big your cock is you will not be stealing me away from Keith. But if you can’t be trusted you will never ever experience an orgasm with me. So lesson to the wise in any type of relationship beware of a lie. If your fooling around be honest about it. I don’t take chances with people and you shouldn’t either. Regarding honesty as well with a spouse. If you are cheating you really are taking a HUGE chance. If you love your spouse and they aren’t interested in this it might be best to be okay with that and be faithful. If you are not madly in love it may be worth it. Just know that if you cheat your marriage may survive but it will never be the same. Marriage is a beautiful thing don’t screw it up.