Girl’s Night 

So last night six of us hit the town for a girls night in Idaho Falls.  We did a Temple session then to Chilis for their brownie and cookie skillets.  I even called ahead to make sure they didn’t sell out of them.  I let them know I was bringing 6 girls craving chocolate and it might not be a good idea to disappoint.  They said they would make sure we were taken care of.  After two hours in the Temple we were ready to party some.  Lots of laughing and anyway they moved us to the corner away from everyone to “isolate” us from disrupting others lol.  I mean really?  We weren’t like that loud.  Oh well we tipped well and they said we could come back.  I have found it a good practice to always ask if we can come back.  It creates an opportunity to be remembered and they learn your name.  You can get anything in this world if they remember your name 🙂 

Halloween is coming!  My annual Scare Spectacular is just around the corner.  I have been hard at work planning my costume and I think this year I will be a Vampres.  Sexy but modest is my mantra.  So I have begun making my outfit.  Kids are still deciding what they want to be.  This year I have decided to plan a special scare for the adults.  Something that will probably have a greater freak factor for them than the kids.  So I will have a few red balloons 🎈around the house and on the property.  I have hired a Clown that will look like Pennywise.  Ha it should be fun.  Don’t wander off by yourself 🙂  This is going to be an awesome event.  We will be able to use a section of the Barn for a Haunted House.  It is looking like another fun year!  

Schizophrenic Weather

April always brings interesting weather to Zion.  Sunny but cold.  Rain, rain, and more rain.  The microburst of wind and weekend after weekend of wanting to do yard work but you have bad weather only to turn beautiful on Sunday.  Winter does not want to let go, it is the most Schizophrenic time of the year without a doubt.  April is almost over so with May comes real Spring.  I am excited.  

April not only brings an adventure in weather but also a couple of fun events.  This past week I was in Park City again.  This was a hard week to get away.  Three kids came down sick and as a mom it is very difficult to leave your family sick.  I made lists for Keith of what to give them and stocked the house with juices, Gatorade and soups.  They survived and other than a few missed days of school by Friday they were back among the living.  Essential Oils, Gatorade, rest and Priesthood blessings are the thing.  

I arrived Tuesday evening and was so tired from being up late with the kids the night before that I just crashed.  Wednesday I had been asked to come speak on what a client really wants and booking the next event.  They had a nice lunch for us after and then off to event prep that afternoon.  A couple of highlights from this event I really enjoyed,  Thursday night we had a super hero themed costume party.  There were about 200 guests so lots of heroes and villians.  I went as Harley Quinn and even had my bat.  It was just a fun social and some great prizes for some awesome costumes.  The winners were Thor, Spider-Man and Captain Kirk.  The other highlight was on Friday night.  It was a free night but the Jazz were playing Game 6.  So anyone that wanted to watch the game we had the screen up and rootbeer floats and Jazz tees for everyone that came.  It was a great game until the very end when they lost!  We had about 100 peeps and we had a blast!  Saturday morning we had breakfast and the last session before wrapping at 11:30.  Anothet successful event in the books.  Grabbed lunch with the CEO and hit the road by 1:30.  It was so great to be home.  The kids made tacos for dinner and we caught up over smoothies.  The cat got scratches from me before bed and was purring like crazy and the dog just wanted to cuddle.  I got welcome home sex from Keith lol.  It was a good homecoming.  Monday is a girls trip to Cape Cod.  Early flight to SLC where I’ll meet up with Mandy and Sara.  One take-away from this week that really impressed me was the reminder to be in the moment.  Where you are at and what you are doing is where the action is.  Make the most of your real time moments.  Everything else is happy to wait for you.  ❤️

Scarcity 

I was chatting with a friend today and we were discussing chat rooms.  I asked him what he thought of the List and he offered some great feedback.  As a former moderator he definitely has some great insight.  He brought up the fact that there is not a lot of women in the room.  I mentioned there isn’t a lot of women in most rooms.  For what it is worth here is my thoughts.  First, one thing men do not understand is women like to chat in a group setting.  Men for obvious reasons want to get into a PM.  So the ultimate irony is men want more women to chat with but the first chance they get a girl alone they take it.  This creates a scarcity of girls.  Simple supply and demand sexanomics.  High demand, low supply.  Second off is no guys want to invite their girl contacts to any room. The scarcity mentality of I have my girls I chat with and I don’t want to expose them to other guys.  I’ll try and debunk a few of these paradigms.  

First off we really like to chat with guys in the main room.  (Second time I have mentioned this in this post.  It’s important and true.)  If you want to build trust and PM more become active in the main room and your PMs will become plentiful.  We are not overly excited to chat with the lurkers.  Second invite girls.  Girls like active rooms because of the first reason.  (Third mention.  It must be important.). More active + inviting girls = more fun for everyone.  Third don’t worry about hooking up or getting off.  Have fun just for the sake of fun.  You may find that creating a great place to chat will make all your dreams come true.  You would not believe how many guys leave the room and I ask them why.  Guess what the response is?  Wasting my time I want to hook up.  Personally I think most will continue to strike out with that attitude.  Sends a pretty powerful message to me of intentions.  I even had one guy say to me we PM anyway so I don’t need the room.  For those that know me I’ll let you guess how available I have made myself to him.  Paradise isn’t made for us, we make paradise.  Same holds true for a little chat room like the List or any other.  Want something great, make it great.  Want more women, invite more women.  Chat, have fun, then you can tell someone this is where you want to be.  I have done my part in creating a fun place, now I need help in making it the place everyone wants to be.  🙂

Disney

We were having a fun discussion today on kik chat about Disney and I was telling everyone about watching Disney movies in college.  I thought it would be something those that follow my blog might be interested in.  So it started that year I spent at Ricke College. NCMO was a pretty big thing there and we had lots of fun having non-committal make-outs.  We usually would get together to watch movies and they were always Disney movies.  So eventually we just started calling them Disney movie nights as code for let’s get together and make out.  The Disney movie nights followed us to BYU.  Haven’t used the code name in a long time.  It made me laugh this morning as we were chatting about it.  Totally made me horny.  I think it’s that conditioned response as those Disney movie nights as they were always pleasurable.  Had several orgasms to.  Some of them were also girl’s nights only lol.  🙂