Ok. How do I say this and not come across insensitive? Ladies please for your own self respect and dignity understand there is a difference between good naked and bad naked. It is like leggings. Some can wear them and some shouldn’t. It is really a wisdom kind of decision. Find clothes that flatter you, not fatter you. If your so inclined to want the attention from the boys on Kik, perhaps strike the pose in a way that makes you look less Jabba. Guys online tend to be complimentary no matter what, including complementing the duct tape naked pics. It is not the undying gratitude to you but as Hunters men do not want to scare others away in hopes of seeing something more desirable. We can all look sexy but use your naked wisely. We don’t need to see what duct tape should be used to hold together. Loving advice from a sister who cares.
I was chatting with a friend today and we were discussing chat rooms. I asked him what he thought of the List and he offered some great feedback. As a former moderator he definitely has some great insight. He brought up the fact that there is not a lot of women in the room. I mentioned there isn’t a lot of women in most rooms. For what it is worth here is my thoughts. First, one thing men do not understand is women like to chat in a group setting. Men for obvious reasons want to get into a PM. So the ultimate irony is men want more women to chat with but the first chance they get a girl alone they take it. This creates a scarcity of girls. Simple supply and demand sexanomics. High demand, low supply. Second off is no guys want to invite their girl contacts to any room. The scarcity mentality of I have my girls I chat with and I don’t want to expose them to other guys. I’ll try and debunk a few of these paradigms.
First off we really like to chat with guys in the main room. (Second time I have mentioned this in this post. It’s important and true.) If you want to build trust and PM more become active in the main room and your PMs will become plentiful. We are not overly excited to chat with the lurkers. Second invite girls. Girls like active rooms because of the first reason. (Third mention. It must be important.). More active + inviting girls = more fun for everyone. Third don’t worry about hooking up or getting off. Have fun just for the sake of fun. You may find that creating a great place to chat will make all your dreams come true. You would not believe how many guys leave the room and I ask them why. Guess what the response is? Wasting my time I want to hook up. Personally I think most will continue to strike out with that attitude. Sends a pretty powerful message to me of intentions. I even had one guy say to me we PM anyway so I don’t need the room. For those that know me I’ll let you guess how available I have made myself to him. Paradise isn’t made for us, we make paradise. Same holds true for a little chat room like the List or any other. Want something great, make it great. Want more women, invite more women. Chat, have fun, then you can tell someone this is where you want to be. I have done my part in creating a fun place, now I need help in making it the place everyone wants to be. 🙂
Well it seems the Daily Hot Pics has been a success. I am getting a lot of good feedback from everyone that it is a highlight of their day. I did two on Memorial Day since it was a Holiday and all. One dedicated to my group Angie’s List on Kik and one to the Military who I personally appreciate for their efforts and sacrifice. Love a man in uniform! Especially a Navy man. 😉 If there is room stop by and say hi on the List.
Vacation has started here in Utah but this year seems particulary busy. Haven’t really done anything yet but work around the house. I am hoping we sell it fast. Excited for our new adventure!
So here is an example of a DHP in case your wondering. There are a variety of things that I think are hot. I do like naughty just not nasty. I have seen pics represented both ways with a facial but this one….mmmmmmm! I would so lick it off her face lol. I really really love her eyes. Capturing lust in a pic is an art. Enjoy! 🙂
Well I finally set up a Kik group. Friends have been encouraging me to for awhile. I can’t believe I actually did it because I’m not really a in charge kind of girl but it’s there. It is called Angie’s List. I know catchy and familiar right? If you want to drop in and chat happy to have you as long as you obey the rules. I don’t have many but a few are necessary. Especially Rule 1 and 4. Have a good day! Rules and Kik Code below. I have unicorns in my group! Real unicorns.